This is a page that is created for the family and friends of teenagers and teenage transgenders. When I first found out my child fell into this category there wasn’t a lot of material that provided me with guidance or explanations about what was happening and what to expect. I hope that you’ll enjoy the articles and I will work hard to make them relevant and to provide those who follow with a safe, accepting and informational place to read about a positive experience that has changed my life forever.
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Im a transgendered f to m and i dont know how to come out to my mom about this and i feel like sharing this website with her will help her understand me, your an awesome parent and your son must adore you. I cant wait for you to post more info, hope to hear more about your stories son
Ashley,
It’s a hard time for you to be alone and not have the support of your parents, especially your Mother ~ it must be very hard on you. It’s important for you to remember that it will be hard for her at first and you may not immediately get the response you want but be patient with her, guide her to information about it and don’t waiver from your conviction. Try to be as open as you can about your feelings and it will help her understand you. If she is like most mom’s she will do everything she can to love and protect you and to help you through this process. If she reads my posts and wants to talk with me I would be more than happy to help in any way I can. Reach out to your local Gay-Straight Alliance, (it’s an actual group that provides support to you) and they will help you in your coming out or at the very least connect you with some good resources. Good luck and I appreciate you commenting – wasn’t sure if anyone could see this. Take care!
Hi lcazga, We have much in common. I am a mother of a transgender son as well. Because I was such a “tomboy” I could relate to my, then, daughter wanting to dress as a boy. From the time he could speak I would allow him to choose whatever he seemed fit to wear. It was always boy clothes. He had lots of guy best friends and at anytime from toddler up if you walked into his room you were in a boys bedroom. Reality hit at around 8 years old when we realized he was going to the bathroom exclusively in the boys/mens bathrooms. Oh, except at school he was avoiding the bathroom. That’s a whole nother topic. Currently my son is on hormone blockers to avoid puberty in the a body that does not match his gender identity. He will probably start T in another year. Anyway not sure how this works but would love to meet you via e-mail so if you get my e-mail through this reply send me a hello. I honor you for all that you are doing for your son. I send a message to any transgender youth out there. There are adults in this world who have already learned about who you are and we care for your safety and well being. lcazga gives a beautiful response above to Ashley. And if you have tried that scenario and things still aren’t working out, there are people like us. So reach out and never give up on yourself.
Hi, nice to meet you !